I’ve just read the thread asking whether men regret their midlife crises. I’m struggling through the aftermath of discovering my own dh’s affair (and have had lots of sensible and helpful and supportive advice from mn) so all affair-related issues are close to the surface for me now.
Which got me wondering if there was anything about your partner’s choice that resembled you or did they go for something completely different?
In my case, ow is older than me, has more children, and is very different in terms of appearance (apart from us both having long dark hair). But I think she’s probably a similar personality type to me and in another life I think we could have been friends :(.