Lack of experience sexually

[Aubreyaubrey]

Firstly, me and my boyfriend have a great sex life in my opinion, always fun and exciting for me. But he has had a lot of partners before me (100+) whereas I've only had 4. I cannot shake the feeling that he has done so much before me and that I'm just comfortable for him. What can I do to shake that feeling?

Is he Mick Hucknall?

There's nothing you can do to shake that feeling, you need to move past it. However, having sex in long term relationships generally means that you're having better quality sex than a series of one night stands. One night stands are often pretty crap anyway.

@12345kbm very funny! He just has had a very wild time through the years. I just didn't. But thank you, that does make me feel a bit better. I just don't want to be settled for.

But that 'wild time' was probably a series of drunken one night stands.

I'm glad you feel better.

100 women.

Grim.

Great sex doesn't come from how many people you've shagged imo but from the intimacy that grows in the understanding of each other's desires, bodies, minds.

@1234km spot on. Sex in a relationship is very different to one night stand. Theres no connection no real needs met while having sex. Its bing bang bosh job done.

Maybe ask what he likes and discuss what you like. I do believe it's about listening to each other because no two people are the same when it comes to exploring and pleasing. Enjoy yourself!

I know for him, it's always been mechanical, how can he give the woman their best orgasm they have ever had? He said he used to feel a failure and got quite obsessive about delivering. For us, I think there is a lot less pressure on him as I wasn't bothered whether I came or not, I was excited by everything. But I often wonder if it's not wild enough as he could pick random people up for sex very easily on a given night out when everyone was drunk.

So, is really about him cheating? Any man/women can do that, even if they have the best sexual partner. Are you fearful that he will cheating because you feel you're not good enough for him?

Sex is mostly not about what motions you perform but about how you make your partner feel. You'll be fine OP.

100+ grim

Has he had a complete STD test that you have seen the actual results of?