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Too scared to go on the 7th date on Friday. Please please help!

4 replies

Yserdhjj · 03/02/2020 22:49

Met someone I like so much that I am getting more and more anxious about meeting them!

7th date meant to be this Friday and I feel like cancelling. Things are stepping up a notch and sex may be on the cards. I don’t want to mess it all up! I never ever ever meet someone I like and I have online dated for YEARS.

How can I stay calm? Or should I push it back a couple of weeks so I can get a grip of myself!!

OP posts:
Feelingabitashamed · 03/02/2020 23:45

Definitely don't postpone it, life will get in the way and the momentum might go.

Jane1978xx · 03/02/2020 23:51

Go on the date but you don’t have to have sex if you aren’t ready. Have you told them how you feel even in a jokey way , like it’s odd we know each other better but you still make me nervous

BodenGate · 03/02/2020 23:53

You’ve got this!

Eveting2019 · 03/02/2020 23:56

DO NOT POSTPONE. This is what you wanted, this is what you went on all those crappy dates for.
It is so very nerve-wracking but you’ve managed 6 dates so far. I do get that the prospect of being intimate Really ups the nervousness though.

Talk to us about it, but don’t postpone. It might never happen if you do.

What is the plan for Friday?

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