How did you know you have chemistry?

[DecemberWisper]

Silly question... just want people's views really.

How do you know if you have chemistry with someone? How do you feel?

Is it just a crush, infatuation, or limerence (that dreadful word)....

I think it’s when you find it fairly easy to get on, enjoy their company and feel good around them. Like a friendship plus the sexual attraction towards them. You might find that you are on the same wavelength about a lot of things or that your differences are complimentary. I tend to feel “we just GET each other” and I really look forward to seeing them again, communication feels easy, long silences feel fine and not awkward at all and, for me, I feel “safe” around him and that’s a big turn on lol.