Did you go to other people’s weddings during your divorce?

[Nogoodwithgoodbyes]

I have been to one wedding since separating & it took me quite a while to recover from it. Faked it all day and night. I’m supposed to be going to another friend’s wedding in April but I have made other plans. We don’t see each other much anymore but used to be close.

What do you think?

She doesn’t even know I’m separated for the past 6 months but I still feel guilty that I won’t be going as she’d care who is there.

I don't understand why it makes a difference. Hasn't happened yet, not expecting anyone to get married but if I get invited along with stbexh it will depend if it's "his friend" "my friend" or joint friends as to what happens, we are still good friends so wouldn't be too much of an issue. New dp's family have invited me to something (not a wedding) which I accepted

Me and exH were bridesmaid and best man at one!

But you do what you need to do to be OK.

I can understand why you wouldn't want to.