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Feel like he wanted to get the last word / broke up with me out of spite

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LightyLight · 29/01/2020 13:11

3 months in, he was messaging frequently, planning all the dates, driving it... No pressure to get me into bed either although he was keen and asked me to stay over. Seemed like it was starting to get serious.

We had a mini-argument halfway through when he said something weird and we left it for a few days as a result (instigated by me) - he was asking me to give him another chance, planned dates etc and wanted to make it up to me - I asked for some space for a few days.

I got over it (I am not a drama queen, it was weird...!) and we met up one more time, I psyched myself up and was excited, it was a good date - now he says he's not feeling it and has ended it.

I can't help but feel this was a response to my reaction to his comment... and it hurts... Feel like it's tit for tat behaviour.

OP posts:
LightyLight · 29/01/2020 13:29

Sorry, my question is: does this sound like a correct interpretation of things?

I feel hurt and lost as we had a connection and he was driving it right up until the end

OP posts:
ScarJo · 29/01/2020 16:31

Another thread?

LightyLight · 29/01/2020 16:37

ScarJo - no-one replied so I moved it to AIBU. Cheers

OP posts:
AnneKipanki · 29/01/2020 17:39

Just think, lucky escape!
If it happens with another it will be a red flag.

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