I’m a whizz at dating and have loads of experience. Turns out I’m shit at consistently dating someone when I like someone!!!!. Been seeing someone a few weeks now and I’m a nervous wreck!!!
I’m finding it all quite stressful, second guessing him, wondering if he’s dating others, the list goes on. I’m usually a very very secure person and totally in control of myself and my life and he’s appeared like a big wave and it’s very unsettling. He’s been nothing but a gentleman either so I know this is my problem. I want to ask if we are exclusive but then don’t know if it’s too soon? It feels like a minefield!!! I don’t know him from anywhere so no mutual friends or connections and it makes it seem like stepping into the unknown. How can I tell he’s into this the same way I am? Maybe he’s looking for a shag only?
Anyone else find this with online dating? How do you deal with it?!