For some reason i got logged out of my original account and cant seem to get back on so ive copied my original post.
So, i'll give a bit of back story, its not entirely relevant to my question but its more to give an idea of where my headspace is at right now.
4 months ago my fiance left me for another woman. In the 2 months before that i had been very ill and had suffered a miscarriage. We have 2 very small children together. Initially we were getting along great then it came out that the woman he left me for had been cheating. Even when presented with undeniable proof he still refuses to believe it so in the time since that was exposed, over 2 months ago, he hasnt seen the children, has told everyone i have stopped him seeing them and that i am the one making up lies and rumours about his new girlfriend and that i am paying his family to help me so there has been alot of arguing between me and hin and him and his family as they have stuck by me and the children and have very little to do with him because of everything. I am also due to move house next week so its a very stressful time for me. Ive never suffered with it before but my mental health has taken quite a hit recently.
Anyway a month or so ago i started talking to a guy that works in my local shop. Hes been there a few months but its only recently we've started talking. He seems quite interested in person, and when we bumped into him in town last week he hung around waiting for us and walked with us abit when he could have quite easily snuck past and i wouldnt even have noticed him. He has added me on social media and messages occasionally. Normally if i message first. As far as i can tell from what i have seen and from what he has said i am the only person from around here that he has added and speaks to outside of work. But hes not great at replying to messages and sometimes doesnt even open them for days. Which implies hes not interested.
So my question is why does he seem interested in person but not really over text? If hes not really messaging does that mean hes just not interested?
Also i dont even know if i myself am genuinely interested or if im just kind of rebounding.
Any advice would be greatly appreciated as i dont really know where my own head is at right now let alone anyone elses. Thanks