Partner asking to buy videos of other women’s feet

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Ok so my partner has a thing for feet. I don’t have a problem with this and enjoy the benefits. I also don’t have a problem with him looking at other women’s feet (mainly Instagram) or porn. I have seen comments on some pictures that I don’t like and then found he had messaged some of them asking to buy videos of their feet. I feel like this crosses a line but he said it’s nothing??

I too would feel like it crosses a line- sort of like the difference between porn and a web cam

Very weird ... I would laugh if I knew my husband was doing this. I have heard of men buying used panties off stars like Maura from Love Island so they can sniff them lol. Sorry I just find this kind of weirdness funny

Thanks for your reply. He said he won’t do it again now he knows how I feel but he knows that I’ve never had a problem with him looking so if it’s nothing then why would he hide it from me?

I don’t think it’s weird him liking feet. That doesn’t bother me at all. It’s the comments first of all and then to find he’s messaged them

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I actually hate my husbands feet they look like monkey feet ... covered in hair etc.

He sounds creepy. But if you dont have a problem with that and porn then he obviously doesnt know where to draw the line.

Well just turn it around. What would you say to a woman who 's boyfriend was messaging other women for photos of their breasts. It's exactly the same.

I agree with @Wondersense he finds feet arousing and is searching that out from other real life women, personally for me that crosses over the line from watching porn.

Why would he hide it from you? Because he knows its odd and is embarrassed.

Its not ok. Agree with the others- if he was messaging women asking for photos of their breasts you'd be furious. This is no different. Its sexually arousing to him and he has crossed a line because now he is contacting random women asking for photos. Whats next? paying for cam girls to watch their feet? Its not the feet that bother me, its the fact he is contacting these women.

Ok so my partner has a thing for feet. I don’t have a problem with this and enjoy the benefits.

I'm trying to work out what sort of benefit you could possibly get from him chugging one off to someone else's feet

All I’ve got in my head is the image of a creepy Victorian man getting all excited because a lady has flashed her ankle. 🧐 Sorry.

Buying panties off stars like Maura from Love Island so they can sniff them lol

Eww 😷 that's next level stalker

And not for this to have any reflection on you OP but what sort of loser pays for porn (albeit feet). This is the next step of taking it 'further' imo.

@teentree maybe op gets lots of foot rubs? Although I'd be wary of his choice of lotion.

Although I'd be wary of his choice of lotion.

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I'm trying to work out what sort of benefit you could possibly get from him chugging one off to someone else's feet confused

Apparently, Idris Elba (my future 2nd husband) has a foot fetish. His wife said the benefits were lots of foot massages/rubs. Sounds pretty good to me!

I am imagining that scene in Poldark where the lecherous vicar sucks someones toes. My face is like [sceptical]

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