I met my husband 10 yrs ago, he was and is a very loving man. I cant complain about anything except that he always tried to tone me down or not let me express myself on certain topice. Till today he sometimes tries to shut me up while talking by giving me the eye. As if he is scared i say sth wrong infront of his friends or family. Everytime i try to discuss this with him he tells me im trying to have a fight with him. 10 years ago shortly after we met i started having major anxiety. Can someone have anxiety from someone he just met?? Could he be the reason? Or it has to be deep rooted from the past??