Q: where would you live if you divorced with kids...?

[WanderingLost167]

Somewhere within walking distance between parents houses, so they could come and go (50:50 custody)

Or

In a village close to the college where one will attend next year, so they could walk home half the week, pop in other days?

Either is fine for me, trying to work out which makes more sense.

Do you plan on moving every time one of your children changes schools/colleges?

Move where it is easy for you to get to work, they can all see their other parent easily and it is in reasonable travelling distance to all their education institutions.

That is both locations.

Then do the first but only if you are seriously co-parenting with your ex.

If you are not - and you will know of you are - I've away.