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Ex dp, ds, fake name, extra kids, second thread

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Fedupofitnow123 · 28/11/2019 22:47

Thank you for your continued support, I'm starting this thread regarding the impending court hearing tomorrow, if someone could link my previous thread that would ne highly appreciated!

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Icanflyhigh · 28/11/2019 22:59

I dont know how to link the previous thread but I'm glad I've found your new one as I was wondering about you earlier today.
You have done so well so far, and I'm sure you will continue to move onwards and upwards for you and both DS'.
Just keep talking xx

CalleighDoodle · 28/11/2019 23:02

Good luck for court

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Fedupofitnow123 · 28/11/2019 23:22

@greentulips thank you! I am dreading the morning and have to be up at 4am! Should have slept much earlier...

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Letthemysterybe · 28/11/2019 23:24

Go to bed NOW!!

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Fedupofitnow123 · 28/11/2019 23:27

@letthemysterybe in bed now, night all :)

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Newschapter · 28/11/2019 23:34

Night Smile

I'll be thinking of you tomorrow.

You're an awesome woman Flowers

GinAndBubbles · 28/11/2019 23:50

@Fedupofitnow123... firstly happy belated birthday xx

I’ve just read your previous thread in full and am in complete admiration of you and your wonderful son. You’ve got this, you’re amazing. Wishing all the very best for court tomorrow, only 1 more day until your (quite rightly!) self imposed weekend off ❤️

stophuggingme · 28/11/2019 23:51

Very best wishes for tomorrow.
Will be thinking of you 💐

Hanab · 29/11/2019 00:01

Rooting for you🌷

Blackbear19 · 29/11/2019 00:03

Sleep tight. Good luck for tomorrow.

TaighNamGastaOrt · 29/11/2019 00:12

Lurked on your first thread, so glad you and your wee boy managed to be free!
Hope you manage some sleep, good luck for tomorrow!

Prawnofthepatriarchy · 29/11/2019 00:16

Sleep well. If you can't sleep don't toss and turn. If you stop trying to sleep and get up and make yourself a hot drink instead you'll probably drop off quite easily when you go back to bed.

I don't think I explained that very well. Grin

Good luck for tomorrow. I think there are a lot of us with you in spirit.

notapizzaeater · 29/11/2019 00:17

Have a virtual handhold x

Pumpkintopf · 29/11/2019 00:35

Good luck tomorrow!!

theemmadilemma · 29/11/2019 00:39

Best wishes for tomorrow.

Janus · 29/11/2019 00:43

Hope tomorrow (today!) goes well for you.

lesleyw1953 · 29/11/2019 00:43
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MzPumpkinPie · 29/11/2019 00:54

Good luck tomorrow @Fedupofitnow123

Beeziekn33ze · 29/11/2019 00:58

Thinking of you and wishing you well Flowers

MsRomanoff · 29/11/2019 01:00

Good luck!!!Flowers

feelinghelplesstoday · 29/11/2019 01:18

Good luck @Fedupofitnow123 you got this xx

StartupRepair · 29/11/2019 01:19

Good luck. You are so strong and brave and you are in the right.

Nodnol · 29/11/2019 01:35

I have read your thread since the beginning @Fedupofitnow123.

You and your boy(and impending boy) deserve nothing but the best. I hope everything goes ok today.

Happy belated birthday and sending hugs and mental good wishes from Australia

WhatTiggersDoBest · 29/11/2019 01:54

I've read through thread 1 from the start.
Hand hold for tomorrow.
Flowers
God I hope it all goes perfect for you and that you never have to see the creepy sod again. Make sure the court know about the CCTV and the constant text message harassment and that he's using a fake name and that you even had to register your child's birth under the wrong name -- sounds like they don't have all the info that the police have been given.