Ex dp, ds, fake name, extra kids, second thread

[Fedupofitnow123]

Thank you for your continued support, I'm starting this thread regarding the impending court hearing tomorrow, if someone could link my previous thread that would ne highly appreciated!

Wonderful news OP, having followed your thread right from the start this is such a positive wonderful new future for the 3 of you, especially with your new home coming too! Congratulations!

Congratulations !!

Congratulations!

Congratulations xx

Congratulations!

Amazing news, so happy for you!

Fantastic news, congratulations 💐. I've been following you from the start but not posted before as you have been getting such fantastic support and advice from other posters, but you have shown such bravery and fortitude and I wish you and both your DSs all the best. A new life, a new baby and a new home.

Congratulations to you and your boys OP...

Congratulations, this is lovely news, and well done on such a fantastic labour too.
Enjoy every second of him! X

Congratulations, wonderful news ❤️

Hi Fedup! Just wanted to pretend that this was a welcome to your new home basket of goodies & a hamper full of fun things for your gorgeous DS1 and new baby. (And some of your favourite treats as well!!!)
I hope you are enjoying your new home, the space and the baby and it’s not all too much right now.
Big hugs!

I lost this thread and only just managed to find you again, congratulations on your new baby and new flat. Hope you are all settled in and enjoying it right now.

Hi everyone!

Thank you for all the messages of congratulations and virtual gifts!

We are doing ok DS1 loves DS2 and is always helping out with him, we had a rocky road with breastfeeding but that seems a bit better now after receiving some extra support.

We love our new home and it's like we have always lived here! Definitely came at the right time with having a new baby!

So pleased to hear your latest updates. Congratulations

Oh wonderful!

Having 2 boys is the greatest! My two were 5 years apart and it was great that Big Bro was old enough to be a 'helper'.

You're in for some wonderful times!

Wonderful update

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Just read everything from beginning to now. I wish you so much happiness for your future op. Can you set up anything like an amazon wish list or some sort of gift list thing so that those who wish to can contribute to a little something for your new home and baby? I would like to help in any way I can .Your story has touched me so much you are stronger than you know and sound like a wonderful mother xx

I was also on your first thread under a different name.

You are amazing and so is your DS1, it made me cry too when you said your son was so happy about the new home.

You have both been through a lot and come out smiling, you have so much resilience.

I would also love to buy you a home warming and new baby gift. I know it’s against the MN rules, but if you could DM me your Amazon wish list, I would love to get you anything you need or a nice item you just want.

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Congratulations. All the best to you all

Wonderful news my lovely!!! All the love and Congratulations to you and both your lovely boys xx

Thank you to you all, you have been so kind and everyone has supported me through some real difficult times.

I'm finding it hard some days now, think the massive changes that have happened in the past 5 months might be really hitting me and I feel like crying a lot of the time, so I've dug my notebook out and will try and write it down in poetry, something I used to do before I met my ex.

I really thank you for your kind offers of Amazon wishlist, but I couldn't accept these, thank you so so much for the consideration though, it really is so kind

@Fedupofitnow123 don't forget you've just had a baby, your hormones will be all over the place regardless on top of all you've been through. You're doing brilliantly and don't put pressure on yourself. Keep doing what you're doing but if you feel things are getting on top of you speak to your dr. Hormones are complicated things and can leap around. Don't wait if you're feeling too sad or upset speak to somebody and get some RL support. Hugs to you x

Apart from the bastard hormones the reason you are finding it hard now is probably because you feel safe in your new home.

The adrenaline keeps you going though the tough times and when you relax, you get weepy and the shakes. It's totally normal, like a pressure release valve. Crying also releases endorphins which make you feel better.

Already you are in a much much better place. It takes time to heal. Be kind to yourself.

How are you doing @Fedupofitnow123?