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Ex dp, ds, fake name, extra kids, second thread

793 replies

Fedupofitnow123 · 28/11/2019 22:47

Thank you for your continued support, I'm starting this thread regarding the impending court hearing tomorrow, if someone could link my previous thread that would ne highly appreciated!

OP posts:
Fedupofitnow123 · 29/11/2019 10:16

Apparently solicitor is in the building, thank you for your messages they are keeping me going and helping.

You're right @nothinghasbrokenmeyet

Nothing has broken me yet

OP posts:
TeachesOfPeaches · 29/11/2019 10:18

OP, all cases are listed to start at 10am. You might be there all day. My solicitor (when I had legal aid), would turn up 10 minutes before and I had never spoken to them previously.

Marshy86 · 29/11/2019 10:18

Hi Op, I have read all of your messages from the beginning you are so strong. Sending you positive thoughts today. Thanks

Annasgirl · 29/11/2019 10:19

Hi OP, sending you best wishes and prayer for strength this morning. Will keep looking for your update later.

MummaofFurGirls · 29/11/2019 10:20

Sending you good vibes from Australia, you are amazing stay strong your 2 little boys will be your drive and the stepping stones of your new life.

Fedupofitnow123 · 29/11/2019 10:21

Thank you! Solicitor here

OP posts:
Jaxhog · 29/11/2019 10:21

Also just read your whole thread and am truly shocked by what he's put you through. I am impressed by how well you're coping and your DS sounds absolutely lovely! You must be a wonderful mum.

All the best for this morning, and hugs.

hsegfiugseskufh · 29/11/2019 10:22

just read your other thread and now this one. Well done OP you bloody brilliant woman. You can do this! Flowers

DM1209 · 29/11/2019 10:22

OP, I'm in Court almost daily, Family and Criminal and it is rare that they run on time. You will be ok.

You have a lot in your favour today and ultimately you know you're doing what is best for you and your babies (congratulations on Bubba 2), please ensure you have a conference with your Solicitor and get all the information you need from him/her.

You are not a bystander in these proceedings, you are a real person that has a real life. It is also important that you get given a grounded understanding of next steps. Don't be fobbed off.

You're WORTH it.

BreastedBoobilyToTheStairs · 29/11/2019 10:23

Another that has followed your story from the start Op. You have been incredible. Your (soon to be two!) sons are lucky boys to have you.

This is one more step to freedom. You can do it! Thanks

ChazsBrilliantAttitude · 29/11/2019 10:23

Your solicitor and the judge will handle any misbehaviour from your Ex. If possible avoid looking at him if it will bother you, just focus on the judge.

DuckbilledSplatterPuff · 29/11/2019 10:24

Just found your thread and am so amazed by how far you have come since your DS birthday. today may be tough but it is preparing the way for you to be free. Wishing you and your lovely DS all the very best.

Serin · 29/11/2019 10:26

Good luck to you, you are an inspiration to have found such strength.
Picture yourself in a years time, in your own place with your 2 happy little boys.Flowers

Clangus00 · 29/11/2019 10:26

You are so strong. Good luck.

Doggyfeet · 29/11/2019 10:29

Good luck OP Flowers

Morporkia · 29/11/2019 10:33

So glad you got you and your son out of that awful situation. Best of luck for today and 💐 for your birthday

Whiskers14 · 29/11/2019 10:36

Wishing you all the luck in the world today, OP! I hope the hearing goes well and it's not too traumatic facing your ex. Flowers

LouMumsnet · 29/11/2019 10:39

OP, we're going to move this over to the Relationships topic for you.

Best of luck.

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Billben · 29/11/2019 10:39

Will be thinking of you OP 👍❤️

clairethewitch70 · 29/11/2019 10:44

Profundity pitchfork carrying member of the Mums Net for Justice Army (MNFJA) standing right behind you

You got this. You are a strong woman. Your boys will be proud of you in years to come. We are all proud of you.

clairethewitch70 · 29/11/2019 10:46

Proud *

pencilpot99 · 29/11/2019 10:46

OP I've read both your threads and I am in awe of you. You can do this Flowers

PassMeAnotherCoffee · 29/11/2019 10:47

Good luck today Fedup Flowers.
We are all rooting for you.

cheesydoesit · 29/11/2019 10:47

OP, I have just read your previous thread this morning and caught up with this one. I think you're a bloody marvel. All the best for today. Flowers

Marshmallow91 · 29/11/2019 10:49

Another here who read the beginning of your first thread then lost it.

You are an absolute rainbow of inspiration to many already OP, I hope you realise this.

Your' two sons will be so proud to have such a rock as a mother. I'm rooting for you and hope everything goes as well today as it can. Flowers