Ex dp, ds, fake name, extra kids, second thread

[Fedupofitnow123]

Thank you for your continued support, I'm starting this thread regarding the impending court hearing tomorrow, if someone could link my previous thread that would ne highly appreciated!

Good luck

Good luck OP and stay strong. Remember how happy DS is and you can be too! Wishing you strength

Good luck OP. Your strength is amazing, you should be so proud of yourself for what you’re doing x

Op, best of luck. It is stressful but you will find a way. I have found that the best answer when someone says the perpetrator is lovely, is to answer “of course he is, how else do you think he gets away with it???” It is beggars belief the female police doesn’t know that.

In your previous thread you mentioned there was no point in sending him to school. You know what is best for your child but bear in mind that if he is settled at school we’re you currently are, it is more difficult (far more difficult) for your ex to fight to become the resident parent. I would send him just because it would make things easier and keep you both safer.

Best of luck in court today, I have found my best way to cope is not to over think things, turn the phone off and concentrate on what is happening around you, clarity of thought comes first on a day of court.

Have just read all that you’ve been going through and wanted to add my voice to the MN chorus of support and admiration.

Just read your full thread and am horrified. Well done you for being so brave to get out. Best of luck today x

Another one who has only just read your full previous thread as I hadn't seen it before.

Well done on finding the strength to leave after everything that man has put you through. You should be so proud of you and your DS.best of luck, you have truth on your side

Good luck today OP.

Hope you managed a little bit of rest. Wishing only the very best for you today. It's amazing to see how far you've come since you first posted.
You're wonderful and strong and full of courage. You'll be in all our thoughts today.

You are in my thoughts today OP.

Best of luck today, I’ve only just found this and you are so brave.

Best of luck for today op, we may all be strangers to you but there are so many of us rooting for you today

Good luck today OP.

You and your son are so brave.

Hold your head up and take all the courage from the brilliant posters of Mumsnet. best of luck 👍

Wow I read the first page of your first thread way back at the start, and just caught up with the rest this morning.

OP you should be so damn proud of yourself. You have done absolutely amazing.

Good luck today. Hold your head high, you got this lady.

Good luck

Op just read both threads. You are so strong! Best of luck in court

Good luck with today and know alot of people are thinking about you and your son's well-being. I am proud of you and you are a tough lady (im sure you don't feel that way but you are so tough) you can do this!!

🌻Stay strong. We are all behind you every step of the way xx

Good luck for today. I hope everything goes well for you. x

Another here who was reading your first thread, lost it, and has just caught up. Good luck today.

Wishing you all the best and continued strength, you can do this.

vest Of luck

Thinking of you op! Good luck today! X

Today will soon be done one way or another

Remember this if you are scared: it takes a total coward and person of zero real strength to abuse you in the way he has. He is just a shell.
Also remember what you have have discovered about him. He is not normal. You and most definitely your soon to be two sons are better as far away from him as possible. He has already shown he is a controlling liar. Not a good start in any court.

I am thinking of you and willing you on.
You are stronger than you will ever know.