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Have you ever been to a swingers/sex club?

11 replies

MrsBricks · 24/11/2019 10:11

Just curious Grin I've recently heard there is one in the next town over Shock but can you imagine bumping into your neighbours?

I can't help but wonder what they are actually like though?

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feistymumma · 24/11/2019 10:12

I've been to swingers / sex parties not clubs

skylighting · 24/11/2019 10:12

This is going to be interesting.

MrsBricks · 24/11/2019 10:13

Please tell me all about it @feistymumma!

How did you get into it? Did you go with a partner?
What kind of people go?
What do you wear? Do you have to stand around eating canapes and making small talk first?

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UnicornsExist · 24/11/2019 10:16

How do you even go about finding a sex party or swingers club? I wouldn't know where to begin!
Asking for an intrigued friend obviously Blush

CurlyhairedAssassin · 24/11/2019 10:19

Odd topic of conversation for a Sunday morning. It’s usually a Friday night thing on here!

What made you think of it when you woke up this morning,,OP? I’ve got visions of you heading off to church with all that going on in your head as you’re listening to the sermon. Grin

MrsBricks · 24/11/2019 10:21

No church for me Curly, but I'll be sure to bring it up over lunch with the inlaws later Grin

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category12 · 24/11/2019 10:23

Well if you bump into your neighbours, you have as much dirt on them as they have on you. Mutually assured destruction.

CFR8 · 24/11/2019 10:26

www.google.co.uk/amp/s/metro.co.uk/2018/05/30/i-went-to-a-sex-club-and-heres-what-happened-7562928/amp/

Here you go. This should give you an idea.

My friend has been to one wit my her husband. It was an eye opener listening to what they got up to!

Amicrazy121 · 24/11/2019 10:28

I went to one which was more where sex was available but not a must. I saw several husbands almost offering up their wives to have sex with multiple men at the same time. The wives seemed willing. Everyone seemed very chilled and open minded and friendly. Mostly older, out of shape though, not the glamorous types I was expecting. But I enjoyed looking around at things that usually are taboo.

@UnicornsExist there are things like FabSwingers parties in London.

CurlyhairedAssassin · 24/11/2019 10:45

i’ll be sure to bring it up over lunch with the inlaws later grin

Oh god. Never mind the thought of bumping into your neighbours, Imagine going to one and seeing your inlaws

MrsBricks · 24/11/2019 17:22

Definitely best to go far from home!

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