Husband talks to me like a child

[Mybabywokemeuptooearly]

I don’t know how to get out of the cycle.

I’ve just been ordered to bed by twatty husband. He often does this after an argument.

I call him out on it but he doesn’t stop doing it.

He is also incredibly snappy lately.

I don’t know how she’s to get him to stop talking to me like it.

Growing up my dad snapped at us kids a lot and I can’t stand it. Had I realised husband would turn into this I wouldn’t have married him but I don’t want to leave either, I just want him to stop it.

He's sending you to bed? That's hilarious. Have you got kids? I'd be running straight upstairs to bed and leaving him to it.

Fuck going to bed, go to the pub and leave him to it!

He's a cunt.

I hope you laughed in his face...

I don't need to be told! I bet you haven't got kids, have you? Most men wouldn't want to be left to look after them on their own. Seriously through, go out to a friend's house next time he does this.

Hope you told him to fuck right off!!!

Oh no! You said fuck. Ima gonna tell....

So what happens if you say no? Stick out your tongue childishly and blow a raspberry and say no like the child he’s treating you like? He sounds horrible.

Laugh and go out. For quite a long time.

Does he order you to do other things too, OP? Do you obey? What happens if you don’t?
You could try Googling “coercive control”, see if it rings any bells.

How bloody dare he?! I hope you totally ignore him.

Omg OP, please tell me you didn't go to bed!
Tbh tell him 'NO!!

He doesn't respect you, sorry. If he did, he wouldn't speak to you like that.

He should have at least tried you on a timeout on the naughty step first.

You just laugh at him surely ...wouldn't you?

Tell us you didn’t do what he said!!!

What and you did what he said? Got to be a joke!

Posters are making light of this and there’s absolutely nothing funny about it. The OP has explained that he’s snappy and bossy and she needs help. I’m sorry OP. You sound very unhappy and he shines horrible. You don’t treat people that you love, as if they’re there to do your biding.

*he sounds horrible

At 7pm?!

What did you say??