Would you be annoyed if guy your seeing told you to shut up?

[coldandheart]

He text me this morning and I replied.
He sent me a video of a song we always sing and I replied then he text saying
"Right enough of this texting please,it's too early for this carry on"
So basically shut up and stop messaging
So I just replied jokingly saying
"Ha ha ok il try and keep my mouth shut "
(We always say I talk too much in life "
And he replied "we can live In hope"
I didn't reply
It was 8am and he had just got to work BUT he messaged me.
Would that annoy you ?

You're really massively over thinking this. It sounds like a jokey chat to me. I can't see how you could get worked up about it.

Do you always stress this much over the small stuff?

Yeah I'm a huge over thinker

He was clearly joking. This is why you should never joke via text. People can’t tell the difference between a joke and a mean comment.

Is there more to it? A bigger picture. Otherwise he was at work and it’s the sort of thing I’d say in a jokey manner, however I know who would take it as a joke and who wouldn’t so would modify accordingly. This really wouldn’t bother me.

It's you again

Still shagging 10 other girls is he?

I think he was joking but I would find that a bit annoying too!

He is the one that said he was busy so I would just wait for him to message you after work. You don't need to text him, unless you have something urgent to ask of him :-)

I think he was probably just saying in a jokey way that he wasn't going to be able to text back much in case you wanted a conversation rather than telling you to shut up. Rather unneccessary though and doesn't really come over well via text!

@JorisBonson Yep you guessed it. It’s Miss name change 100 times to post the same shit about some guy who doesn’t want her.

Getting quite tiresome now @MashedSpud!

I think he was just making it clear he was going to be busy at work so wasn't going to be able to keep texting all day, which is totally understandable. You are massively blowing it out of proportion to frame it as him telling you to shut up when he did nothing of the sort. Get a grip.

It’s been happening for literally six months. If I knew her in rl I’d be telling her to shut up too.

JorisBonson I didn't want to be the first to say it, I got told off last time

Oh my god OP. He was obviously joking. I would have said EXACTLY what he said in that sort of lighthearted situation.

To be honest, I think you'd be doing him a favour in the long run by not replying... You don't sound compatible.

There have been very similar threads to yours in the past OP. Have you posted about him before?

Jesus not to sound rude but how old are you? Even just by reading what you said he out you can tell he was joking! I think its time to dig out your sence of humour hun

Do you not have a job or something?

This reads as very familiar. Step away from the phone and try to stop over analysing ☺️

I think he was politely saying right I'm away. Would you have preferred he just went silent? . I think he was perfectly OK to say what he did

Sounds like banter to me. You either get it or you don't

How does everyone recognise OP?

Is this the car journey one?

Are you 12. I think this forum is for adults.

@hotseat that was the age I predicted as well 😂😂😂😂