For a man to tell you they want you to look sexy and buy sexy lingerie and basically be someone you aren't.
I feel like he is pressurising me into this and has been the last year or so. Now ive known this man for nearly 20 years - we aren't in a relationship but always seem to never lose that connection.
he knows my history and knows that I find it very hard to be romantic and show affection etc. yet he is now expecting me to be dressed up when he next sees me. basically saying he is taking me out for my birthday and then hes expecting a thrilling end to the night. Apparently me dressing sexy would make his "dreams come true". When In fact the whole time he was saying this I just felt so vulnerable.
Thoughts ?