What would you make of this?

[happyandsingle]

So had a second date last night was ok but was undecided if I would see him again.
Woke up to a message that said morning....next time I'm staying at yours or you can stay at mine.
I'm fuming at the cheek of it to assume that on the 3rd date I'd happily shag him.
Now debating to just block or send a thanks but no thanks and then block.
Would anyone else see this as beyond cheeky. FWIW there is no way I'd see him again after that message.
What happend to taking it slow? Dating seems to be so sex oriented now its depressing.

He's not very bright, is he? Block.

I wouldnt see him again either. Very presumptuous - he'll pass it off as a joke but even so it's one with a very clear message.

Reply:

There is no "next time".

I've just blocked. Not even bothered with a reply.

What a wanker!

I'm glad it's not just me and others agree!

Well if I like a guy I will happily sleep with him on a first date, but that message would still annoy the fuck out of me!

Well done for binning him off.

Its the assumption its going to happen like how dare he.

Really rude. I went on a date with someone a few weeks ago who did this. At the end of the date he said "I wasn't sure whether I would be coming back to your place or not... next time I should stay at your place" before he got into a taxi.

I had already decided I didn't want a second date, but had I had any doubts, what he said before heading home really made that decision certain for me. Yuk. I don't care if you live 20 miles away, the assumption that I will open my home to someone after a first date is madness. And suggesting it with a sense of entitlement??? Just WTAF. If I want to do that, that is my decision. But to assume that I WILL is so presumptious and downright rude.

Totally agree it's the assumption. And this is from a man in his 40s.

What a sleaze.

He could have made an effort and got your interest but sending a text like that? Yuck.

Obv thinking with his knob.

Does he imagine he's dominant? I think you had a near miss.

he doesn't want to mess around with lots of dates, he wants to find out quickly if you're someone who is easy to abuse and manipulate

Entitled but also thick as shit! How alluring. Are you sure, OP?

Send him a dick pic.....another man's dick.

What I detest is when their picture on the dating site is naked from the waist up, lovely. I don't want to see that.

Lol v cheeky. I had a date once where he drank and then complained he had no way home. He presumed he could stay at mine this was only date 2! I told him to sleep in his car.

Don't even entertain this creep. Block.

madcatladyforever

Send him a dick pic.....another man's dick.

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Hahaha

Send him a dick pic.....another man's dick.

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Cheeky feck - am so glad you blocked. I love the dick pic suggestion 🤣

This modern dating malachey is so ruthless 😞.

Oh and another vote in favour of the dick pic suggestion!

I adore the idea of women just sending a dick pic pinging STRAIGHT back when sent one. Especailly unsolicited

Ooof they wouldn't like that one bit would they?