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I think he faked an orgasm - is that bad?

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Confused101010 · 16/11/2019 20:20

We are mid 20s. Been together for around 7 months. Our sex life is okay but we havent been able to do it for a few weeks due to my period being irregular and everytime we saw each other i was bleeding (the joys).
Last night, I wasnt bleeding so we took the opportunity and he seemed really "excited",
He had to leave to leave to meet some friends within half an hour so we knew it would be a "quickie";
But when he came to ejaculate, it all seemed normal - he moaned and finished and i didnt think anything of it at the time. He showered straight after.
But I watched a movie before showering after he left, and before i showered i noticed i was dry down there and it didnt have a certain smell it usually has. Usually when he ejaculates inside me, it has a noticeable smell if i dont shower straight away and I can feel the sperm "pouring out" (dont know how to explain it),
But it just felt really dry and no smell whatsoever;

Maybe he felt rushed because he was meeting his friends? Or maybe he did ejaculate but there wasnt as much as usual?

I dont know, I've just been thinking about it today and wondering if men fake orgasm and if its a bad sign?

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Obviouslynotobvious · 16/11/2019 20:23

Occasionally my previous partner had a dry climax. I mean once every few years! So it could be this?

Faking it means there is an issue though. Are you generally open about your sex issues and likes etc.?

Littlepeak34 · 16/11/2019 20:23

Ermm I wouldn’t think too much into it. Maybe he didn’t ejaculate much and you watched a movie before you showered, so maybe you didn’t notice.

Just keep an eye out to see if it keeps happening.

libbynaughtz26 · 16/11/2019 20:24

Women fake it all the time. Maybe he just wasn't in the mood.

Confused101010 · 16/11/2019 20:25

Sorry TMI but the night before he stayed at mine but i was bleeding slightly.
He was really turned on and he was 'wet' down there but I stopped it as im not comfortable with blood so we finished with oral;
We have done oral sex reguarly (obviously not on me) the past few weeks since we couldnt dtd and he was able to ejaculate then so im hoping that's a good sign??

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Tinkletinkling · 16/11/2019 20:26

My bf has said that he has previously with others. Maybe because he just couldn't get there?

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Bluerussian · 16/11/2019 20:35

It was almost certainly a 'dry come'. That just happens sometimes but doesn't inhibit enjoyment in any way.

YouJustDoYou · 16/11/2019 20:42

If they've had a wank before I've found this happens.

Bellaxx8 · 16/11/2019 21:28

Ask him?

Mermaidsinthesand · 16/11/2019 22:21

You sound very insecure.

This will tie you up in knots forget about it and move on. Who knows what happened

Heartburn888 · 16/11/2019 22:54

He might of get under pressure to finish and then get out to meet his mates and not be late.

Or he might of had a wank earlier if you’ve been irregular and there isn’t much to come out? Don’t worry about it.

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