Female gamer sending naked video to husband

[BrightlightsBigcity]

Not my husband, but a close friends. She stumbled upon it while borrowing his phone. Full on naked 'performance'. As far as she knows, the woman and her husband played together online, are in different countries, and only exchanged nicities such as 'night, love' after games. One of her other friends has said he probably just saw it as porn like any other and just forgot to delete it after watching.

I'm more suspicious, but don't know if this is because of my projection of my own issues with an untrustworthy husband. So any opinions on:

1. How likely is it a woman would do this without any encouragement from the guy?
2. It was sent to his email address. Wouldn't she have had to ask for it and therefore they were probably communicating via email beforehand too?
3. Friend has said her piece and is just trying to forget about it now. I think this is a mistake, she should be keeping an eye on him.

Opinions and advice? I know how devastating it is to give your trust to your spouse after being let down, only to have it happen again. I'd hate for my friend to go through this too, but don't really know what to suggest for the best.

I game and have made friends online. A male gamer told me that female gamers have sent him nude photos etc before, it happens a lot apparently.

Oh God Fenella’s post reminded me the creepiest story of all - when DH was around 16, a female teacher in her 40s was sending him explicit messages on RuneScape. So yes, females can also be sleazy.

That said, those games can be truly wonderful - I was part of a very community-spirited server and in top raiding guilds. Those years were the most fun I’ve had in my life. Still have friends from those times.

There's two ways this could of gone here.

He either bought it, but usually that's done via patron ect. Or she's a bit of an aggressive predator, I've played most mmos, been in guilds ect and using streamer platforms for the past 10 years and seen it quite a bit.

There are sometimes women (and men) but more so women I've noticed who are quite predatory and will send videos via Snapchat ect.

My DH is in a guild among other things he does.. The number of toxic people he's come across during this time is unbelievable. Had one incident where a woman (yes 25 year old woman) was sending naked pictures and videos to everyone in their guildshe took a liking to (knowing very well they had partners and demanding pictures in return). She even managed to split up a man and his partner.

There's been another who did the same and had several men buy her gifts on the promise she'd meet them but was just playing them off against each other, while sending nudes.

It's something to be aware of, he might be totally innocent (or he might not). My experience with this is, people who do thos in a guild setting are really attention seeking and either move on really quickly if they get nothing or are playing several people at once.