Online dating...is this ok?

[purpleflowers25]

So Mr Right failed to turn up in a white chariot on my doorstep as hoped! So I have been online dating...wow, it can be crazy out there! I have been on dates, with very nice men, luckily has no really bad experiences. However, after a couple of dates I haven't felt it was going to lead to more, so I have been talking to others. The issue is I seem to feel bad about doing this, but cant really explain why! Is it ok to just keep going on dates, and seeing what happens. I never make promises to any of the dates about anything more serious. I would just like to find the right person

I find it hard to do this, would rather just be ‘seeing’ one person at a time regardless of whether they are dating others or not, but I think (according to what people say on here as well) it is probably better to date more than one guy until you find someone you mutually want to be exclusive with.

I don’t do that myself because I don’t have time, I have a busy work/hobby/social life that doesn’t lend itself to dating different guys every night!

Good luck

I also have a busy life, and certainly don't date different guys each night. I always give myself one night off a week to rest ;) ;)

The men you are meeting for dates are also seeing others, so just bare that in mind if you start to feel bad. They are doing the same

It's funny isn't it? I'm the same as you, cant manage more than one. It's a jungle for sure!! May a Good Man turn up for you soon xxx

You have to chat to others, chatting is not a crime.

I was an online chatter to various guys, you should not feel bad about innocent chatting

Don't waste your time chatting for days/weeks on end and never meeting . You're not looking for a penpal. Meet them as soon as you can.