I had a date with a guy last weekend. We had been talking online for a few months. When I arrived I was shocked as he had bought me a bouquet of flowers. I understand he was trying to make a good impression but I felt it signalled he was needy and desperate as I had not met him before or done anything to deserve them.
At the end of the date he asked when our second date was and I could tell he wanted a kiss. I don't kiss people on a first date as I need to get to know someone properly. As I felt pressurised about a second date I said lets see how it goes with no pressure and we can message. I didn't like being put on the spot for a decision as I like to process my thoughts.
He messaged the next day and then he ignored my 2 messages for 4 days saying he had been 'busy'. Whereas before he messaged me daily. His messages are short and not as friendly.
Am I best to knock this one on the head? I don't like the thought of rushing into a relationship with a stranger I might not be compatible with and who is now playing mind games with the I'm busy just because I wouldn't give in for a second date straight away.