AIBU to be pissed off with my oldest friend

[RubyD]

I am going through some major relationships problems and have no-one I can talk to. I emailed my oldest friend a few weeks ago and shared with her but other than a quick, "will get back to you later", she hasn't responded to me.

I am upset. I know my marriage isn't her problem but I did expect some kind of response or support. Her parents have both died over the last 4 years and I have always been there for her. In fact, all through our friendship I have been there. I just feel disappointed and annoyed though a lot of this is also because I am in this tricky situation at home. So I don't want to mix the two up and transfer everything onto her.

Would you say anything or just assume she is busy and has forgotten to reply?

RubyD, there could be something going on in her life that you don't know about. I'd give it another go and text saying you really need some support, is she available?
If she doesn't respond to that..... I think you know where you stand in her list of priorities. Some people we think are friends really aren't.... just found out my bestie has been having it off with my DH for years. Says more about them than us my love. Hope things get better for you x

Oh wow @Carrie1402 that is horrendous about your friend. Really sorry to hear that but you are right. Yeah, may give it another go. Thank you for responding. x

Good luck my love. I'll be hoping all goes well for you x