When we got together we had both come out of long term sexless relationships and both agreed that this was a symptom of other things not being right in the relationships.
We would see each other a few times a week when my DS was with his Dad and had the best sex I’ve ever had.
The frequency settled down a bit after a couple of years as it tends to. I got pregnant a few months before we moved in together (planned we had bought the house and work was being done to it). Once I was pregnant he was too worried to have sex incase some thing happened to the baby and we started sleeping in separate beds because I was snoring and have stayed in separate beds since the baby has come (almost a year old).
When he is in work he is too tired to have sex so I never ask them because I know it will be a flat out no. He’s off work this week however he has already rejected the idea last night and now I feel like I don’t want to ask again and be rejected again.
Is it going to be another week that passes, are we both now in another sexless relationship doomed to failure?