Ive already mentioned on here how, to put it lightly, how shit my mum is. We've had nc since end of last year due to her actions and how she treated my daughter and partner, and making us homeless.
Ive recently been in contact with an old friend and she's sent me some screenshots of her conversations with my mum. My mum has told her that my partner is controlling, abusive (he is not) and that I'm blinkered by him? She's also said 'my main concern is my grandchildren, mainly my grandson'. She shows no interest in my daughter maybe because she is my partners child and my son is not. She's said in one message she wanted to kill me at one point?? But expects to be in my kids lives, mainly ds obviously! Now this is one among the many times she's lied and verbally abused me to my friends and also on social media (cringe she is nearly 50) and I'm absolutely sick of it. I've lost a close relationship with my family because of this, especially my nan, her mother. It's like she has them under the thumb! I feel really sorry for my nan especially as she just doesn't see my mum for who she is! I sent my mum a message yesterday telling her if she carries on slandering mine or my partners name I will take it further. Would Ibu to take it further? How would I even start? She really impacts on my mental health and I don't want it anymore!