are german guys uptight as lovers as people make them out to be?

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im just wondering if my online searches exaggerate or not (my tinder matches have not helped either)
any girls who've dated them?

I find them literal and to the point. But so am I so we get along. If they show you affection it’s genuine and not BS.

What?

Watch some old episodes of Eurotrash.
Have a little think about stereotyping and whether it's a good thing.
Consider whether addressing women as "girls" is really appropriate.

Dated and subsequently married to a German. Definitely straight to the point, but an uptight lover? Hell, no!

Obviously a small sample of one, so can't speak for the entire male German population.

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Consider whether addressing women as "girls" is really appropriate

i am sorry didnt mean to offend you or any others with my silly choice of name

anyways, this is just a question, i dont see how its generalization

How is "are German people uptight lovers" not a generalisation?

Population of Germany = something like 82 million people.

Yes all german guys are uptight

Just as all english guys keep their socks on during sex and all italian guys are stallions with massive cocks who love their mothers.

Generalisation much?!

Yeah. They're also all really efficient at the business of the sex. Ya.

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I dated two Germans (not at the same time.) Definitely not uptight!

Great in bed.

I had a ONS with a German twenty five years ago, and I can confirm he was very uptight in bed. So I think you might be on to something OP

Having had sex with the entire male population of Germany, I can confirm that they all have the exact same sexual tastes, hangups, strengths and weaknesses. Much like English guys - if you've had sex with one, you've had sex with them all!

I've fucked 2 Germans

Both weirdly kinky. Frankly I'd have preferred 'uptight'.

My sample size of one indicates a love of keeping socks on and staring off into the distance with eyes open while kissing. Pretty sure that doesn't mean all Germans are like that!!

I had a shower with a German guy once and gave him, er, hand relief. He couldn't have been that uptight.

I kissed one once. Does that count? It was nice.

I am German . German men are certainly not uptight. They can be very direct and any feelings expressed are genuine. However, drunk German men are a nightmare.

Well, I can't speak for the other 40 million but I quite like my own version.
How about seeing men as, well, individuals?

I’ve never slept with a German but I would imagine one to very thorough and effective.

my man is German and very honest. tells me he loves me every day, so I am happy to find this is genuine and not bs. he always wears pyjamas in bed, don't know if all German men do this.

@Bananalanacake
No.

Do all English people have bad teeth? Do all French women have hairy armpits.

I am a Frenchwoman married to an English man and your question is stupid and ridiculous.

I had a German boyfriend....he was good fun and cute and very jealous!

I had a few dates with a German guy,way back in the1960 era. He was about the same age as me then, about 23,he was a visiting student at the car firm where I worked. He was handsome, fit,and quite a serious chap, very direct in his speech, but as a kind of lover, he was loving and caring,and wow, no problems at all.

Definitely not uptight IME. Possibly annoying in other ways, but you need to assess that on an individual basis.

They are on the same sliding scale as men everywhere. Bare in mind that as an (I assume) British woman the generalisation of you by men from the Eastern Block is that we are dead from the neck down and sex with a dead body would be preferable.