I hope this is an OK place to post this.
I read this article today and found it really powerful. I hope it gives strength to some women here 
[['He never hit her in front of me again' – Donna Ferrato's domestic abuse photos
www.theguardian.com/artanddesign/2019/jun/20/donna-ferrato-domestic-abuse-photos-holy-exhibition?CMP=Share_AndroidApp_Copy_to_clipboard]]