I keep seeming to attract the same men, they don't mention any partner, reel you right in and then when you show any interest you are dropped and gossiped about, as if you started something. So basically always just an ego boost. I'm not a flirty person so it's not like I am playing some game. Is this something about me or can anyone give me tips on how to avoid men like this or how to pick up on the signs quicker?