I will make this very brief. I met a man last year, in between ghosting me he would come back and make all kind of promises. I would take him back and then the ghosting would start and then breadcrumbing follow by ghosting. I have since discovered that he is married, he told him that they are separated and the divorce should be finalise soon.
We have been in communication recently -nothing ever happened between us, we kissed once but that's was it. The arrangements was to have dinner on my birthday (yesterday), I needed notice/time regarding the arrangements , however, he decided to ghost me till around 5 pm yesterday, when he started calling my numbers including landline. I decided not to take his calls. He texted, WhatsApp etc, but did not respond. He called multiple times.
He called me at 1am, I did not answer his calls, this morning at around 7am, he again called, texted and WhatsApp multiple times. Mainly claiming that he wanted to see me/have dinner with me on my birthday etc. He is saying that he is "upset" as he wanted to see me, speak to me and that, "I may not want to speak to him.." etc.
This man has put my heart through hell - I am at the point in my life now that I have no feelings left for him anymore. When we first met, he lied to him that he has never been married, only to discovered that he was married.
Two can play this game right? I am glad that he is now feeling what I went through when he would not answer my calls, texts or emails.
Why am I even bothered?