Do you get as much sex as you'd like?

[sidge]

My sex drive has returned with a vengeance after having DD3 and coming off the mini-pill (only took 10 months )

But DH seems to still be dormant...

I have tried suggestion, flirting, being subtle, being very unsubtle and basic pouncing but most times just get flanned. I know he still loves me (lots of cuddles) but I'm beginning to get frustrated that my efforts are being rejected.

So am I the only one? Is anyone else wanting nookie and not getting it? What can I do? It's difficult having some time alone as 3 children and no family to babysit, but I am wondering just how to rebalance our mismatched sex drives.

No, I don't get as much as I would like either.

Yes,Zero

no i dont enough either,

No. Too much quite often.

have you asked him outright what the problem is?

lmao i dont get enough my sex drives returned after having a coil fitted lol sometimes its like imtrying to flirt with a brickwall

Yes.

I think you and your husband need to have a frank talk.

Nooo, im always pestering him

Phew glad I'm not the only one then!

We have had a chat, he says he isn't in the mood at the same time as me - he likes mornings (blurgh) and I like night time. Occasionally we get the urge at the same time and when we do it's fab (sorry if TMI)

I think it doesn't help that he is in the most tedious job ever, and that seems to be impacting on his life - he is generally rather sluggish and not the dynamic person he used to be.

Ho hum I guess I will just have to put up with it a bit longer, and arrange a sexfest away one weekend!!

yes..at the moment!...but we have patches where our libidos far from match.

i suggest you just ride it out

i tell my dp outright i dont get enough, although i love the cuddles sometimes im having to do favours to get what i want!

no. def not getting it enough, and gets quite frustrating alwys having to be the one to initiate it

Not at the moment!!! Dh has been in Iraq for 11 weeks now and I have to say I am very frustrated !!! 3 weeks til his R&R he'll probably be more knackered when he goes back out there

LOL Onefoot - my DH is Navy so I know what you mean!!

We conceived DD1 about 5 minutes after him getting home from a 7 month deployment..