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friend who drains me! what can i do

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AMAZINWOMAN · 12/07/2007 21:52

i have a friend who phones me every other day for an hour at a time. Its always about her problems and her day. Even when I have been unwell and unable to speak and have gone through a bereavment, she will still phone me and tell me her stress.

i like her-but think of getting rid of the landline phone so she wont phone so much!
shes getting more out of the relationship than I am

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IsabelWatchingItRainInMacondo · 12/07/2007 21:53

Erm... if she always ring at the same time, stop picking up the phone until she becomes used not to ring you every other day.

TheArmadillo · 12/07/2007 21:55

get an answerphone and screen calls. Don't answer more than you feel able to.

HAve you told her that you can't talk/have things going on you would like to talk about?

It is exhausting, especially if you have so much else on your plate.

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