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I am married but I think I am attracted with my landlord

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posh09 · 05/04/2019 20:02

Hi Mums! I am married, but I live far from my family because I still need to sponsor them so I live with my friends. I am the main tenant and I communicate with my landlord. First meeting, yes he's attractive and very nice. He would answer my calls or texts regarding issues in the house. Lately, I have to ask help from him regarding signing of papers and he invited me to his house. I was surprised because he opened up about his personal life, he's separated. he asked me about a lot of things. he asked me about my work, personal life. A month ago, when he visited I even heard him say he loves looking at me. however, after that conversation, he would no longer answer my texts about some house issues and he would only answer unless I call. I feel that I am attracted to him and I hate myself for feeling this way. I am leaving the house in the next few weeks though. I was just bothered about the sudden coldness...

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Thingsdogetbetter · 05/04/2019 20:35

He's realised he's been flirting with a married woman and has backed off. As he should. You, on the other hand, should not be 'bothered' by the fact a man has gone cold on you, as a married woman. The quicker you move out, and on, the better.

FineWordsForAPorcupine · 05/04/2019 20:40

You're attracted to him. So what?

You don't have to act on it, you know. You can just...be attracted. It's hardly a big deal.

posh09 · 05/04/2019 21:21

Thank you. Yes, I realised that too... coz after that conversation, then it has never been the same and it stopped.

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posh09 · 05/04/2019 21:22

Yes, FineWordsForAPorcupine maybe I just felt guilty that I got attracted and somehow worried why everything has changed suddenly. It should not be that case. Thank you !

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