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He is now seeing a Hypnotherapist for his controlling behaviour !!!!!

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Antha720 · 22/03/2019 20:43

He is still trying to convince me that everything can work,I'm so tired of this, I can feel myself giving in before I even get started, I looked at another rented house today wish I hadn't a proper grot hole, 2 bedroom for £600 a month .....my mortgage is only £376...but he wont leave the house...I can feel myself losing the plot..I really don't know what to do any more...

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DioneTheDiabolist · 22/03/2019 20:46

OP, tell him that if he wants to prove he's not controlling anymore, he'll move out.

IM0GEN · 22/03/2019 20:57

What Dione said

HollowTalk · 22/03/2019 21:02

What's your financial situation, OP? You said it's your mortgage - is it a shared one?

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Antha720 · 22/03/2019 21:53

Yes Hollowtalk, joint mortgage, 3 kids ,one 18 soon off to uni, 16, and 11 yr old girls...I so scared that when he realises that I really want to leave he's going to flip...........

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