Joedo,
Interesting, certainly rings true with me. I have just come out of a relations , of 5 years, after i caught me ex messaging upwards of 3 men, this is on two of an affair she had when she was with her ex husband. Oh year, i forgot, during our relationship we had a temporary, because she;s a narcissist and liked to control push/pull me, she contracted an STD-Explain that!!