Your relationships change

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I've come to realise who's there for me and makes an effort and who doesn't ever since I've had my twins. Anyone else feel this after having babies?

Totally... but for me it's who's said that they'll be there but want to be there for the baby more...

Honestly when times get tough you know who's there because they turn up and try to help without expecting anything in return... those people are the diamonds in our ring! Xxx and treasure those people with all you have because they're hard to find...

Sinse having my D'S, I've realised that people were there for me for their own gain and now that he is here I have literally been tossed aside and they don't really respect me as a mum and to be hinest, we shouldn't really have time for that... and our children don't really want to be seeing their mum's be treated like that... I want to show my son how to respect others but also ourselves! Xxx

Thoughts and love are with you... I've found places like this really helpful to vent and get emotional support xccc