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My partner is disgrusting porn addict cheat (new discovery)

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onmywatch · 16/03/2019 11:34

12 years toghether! I snooped on his phone and found completely different persona, I'm truly horrified, naked photos of his cock, him masturbating sent to various people, lots of hard core sex chats with women.
It's not the person I know, can't even talk about it with anyone in real life as it's too humiliating. Ach and best bit, it been going on for at least 3 years...3 fucking years!!! How stupid and blind I must be not clocking it for 3 years!!!

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LuluBellaBlue · 16/03/2019 11:39

Please don’t be hard on yourself, this is his deep dark secret and totally his doing. Of course you didn’t know, probably because you trusted him and he presented a totally different character to this side of him.
I’m so sorry you’re going through this awful pain, please do tell people and get as much support as you can, this isn’t yours to be ashamed of Flowers

QuentinWinters · 16/03/2019 11:41

please do tell people and get as much support as you can, this isn’t yours to be ashamed of
This! He's an idiot.

Lozzerbmc · 16/03/2019 13:37

How shocking for you but dont feel stupid, men seem to be able to compartmentalise their lives and present a different image... You were clearly suspicious about something though, to look at phone in first place?. Tell a trusted friend for support.

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