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My mate came on to me but has gf!

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Avalaura · 12/03/2019 19:23

My mate of 13 years asked me to go out like we have before as mates; as we get on and he had no one else to go out with. I told him I had no money to go out so he offered to pay for my drinks and he did.
So we had a laugh all night until it came to going home, because he was paying for our taxi home he assumed he could stay at mine. We got another drink and he started coming on to me and saying his gf doesnt show him any affection. I said you need to talk to her about this I can't do this with you you have a gf. This is wrong. And he ok thank you! ? And then he kept cuddling me so I left him on sofa and wentto bed. And he was gone early in the morning. He hasn't said anythingto me and I don't know what to say or do about it?

OP posts:
Avalaura · 12/03/2019 19:24

Also, I don't see him as anything more than just friends. Forgot to put that ...

OP posts:
ijustneedagoodshake · 12/03/2019 19:56

Conversation on your own about boundaries.
Respect for Relationships.partners.

Your his friend because he had these.
Don't fuck it up - him.

I would give the benefit of the doubt
Once.

Don't be alone with him again in this type of situation.

ijustneedagoodshake · 12/03/2019 20:39

Hope you are ok op xx

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