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Very strange break up??

11 replies

Geoflaz · 06/03/2019 19:47

My girlfriend of 2 years had suddenly broke up with me! She told me that she needs time to herself as she is a changed person and needs to reflect and love herself, and that she’s really sorry.
She was very upset afterwards and so was I. She hasn’t messaged me for about a month now , which seems strange.
What do you guys think I should do?? Or what do you think is going on?? I’m quite confused , I have a lot of faith that we can work out, thankyou Grin

OP posts:
NoArmaniNoPunani · 06/03/2019 19:49

Why is it strange that she hasn't messaged you? That's quite normal after you dump someone

Ragnarhairybreetches · 06/03/2019 19:57

I don't think that's strange either. You are no longer together.

Easterbunnyiscomingsoon · 06/03/2019 19:59

Your faith is misplaced it seems.
Move on like she has.

MumsyJ · 06/03/2019 20:03

Sorry OP Flowers, break ups can be crazy most times.

It shouldn't come across strange as she's made her point clear and broken up with you. It's been a month, no words from her, she's moved on and her time to reflect is perhaps doing her good.

Time to move on maybe OP?

ChristinaMarlowe · 06/03/2019 20:19

As others have said. She said it was over and stopped contact with you. That's what breaking up means. Focus on yourself and not your ex and be kind to yourself. Sorry OP.

crappyday2018 · 06/03/2019 20:21

Sorry OP but she was clearly serious about breaking up with you. Her excuse of 'needing time to herself' was her way of letting you down gently. Not sure she's been entirely honest with her reasons. You're going to have to let this one go.

YourSarcasmIsDripping · 06/03/2019 20:23

After a month with no contact?

Only one thing to do...move on,just like she has.

Petalflowers · 06/03/2019 20:24

Ou could send her a courtesy text, along the lines of ‘how are you, hope you are doing okay’, but then leave it up to her to contact you.

AnyFucker · 06/03/2019 20:25

Do nothing at all

CryptoFascist · 06/03/2019 20:36

She's not your girlfriend any more.
Stop.

category12 · 06/03/2019 20:42

What's strange about it? She broke up with you. Leave her alone.

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