Why would someone, when faced with the prospect of a decent relationship with a decent person for once (something new-ish that has been going on for say a month so far and going very very well), still be thinking about someone who is married and flirting with them? Someone who changes how they act like the wind changes.
How can you stop yourself from thinking about them and focus on evrything else? If it was a silly crush shouldnt it have faded by now. Lost control of feelings completely.
NC not an option. This person is stuck in their life permanently (family friend). There is no possibility of acting on it as its morally wrong, no matter what feelings are. How to rip that plaster off?????