Please can someone talk me through using Match

[Delboy1964]

I don't understand! Sorry, I'm being very stupid I'm sure but I can't see a user guide on the site. Do you have to pay before you can see who's looked at you? How do you indicate you like someone? I've never done this before!

Yes you have to pay before you can see who has looked at/liked/winked at you etc. Again if you see a profile you like the look of you can send them a 'wink', 'favorite' their profile or just send them a message. People can see when you have looked at their profile so try not to look at the same profile too many times in the one go may-have-taken-me-a-while-to-figure-that-one-out

You have to sign up for a few months with match and then you can see profiles and people can see you. It can be some destroying though knowing people have looked and not liked or winked or anything despite you doing the same to them. I found some very dodgy ones on match (paying doesn’t guarantee a better choice of match) have you tried tinder it’s not just for hook ups and you can only talk if you both like each other so at least that’s a start. Have a look at the dating thread of here full of wonderful advice ..think it’s about thread 146 now. It was just hitting 100 last time I was on it.

Oh thank you both, that's really helpful. It wasn't clear to me at all.