New relationship and valentine's day

[Fullofthought]

What do you get a guy you would have been with just over a month for valentine's Day?

I wouldn't get them anything

Nowt

I'd agree to buy eachother nothing. I've fallen into that trap before and it's kinda ruined the whole thing for me now.

Errrr a card. I would expect a card and would buy one certainly ( clearly not one that says To the one I Love). I would probably want to go out too.... that’s the time when you bother with all the hoopla.

A card and a small thing, like his favourite chocolate or something.

We never did valentine's day, and after 25 years still don't.

I'd suggest stay in and have a takeaway'n'chill. Assuming you're doing the 'chill' thing :)

Maybe just a jokey present and a card??. I'd been with my BF for a month when it was his birthday so I got him a cheap little pressie that was related to a little inside joke we have and a card. Nothing OTT or lovey dovey

Nothing more than a card. A jokey one.

southern how did it ruin the whole thing for you?

Go out for a meal

We've never done V day, it's bollocks.

Is it 2 weeks since you made it official (hence 4 weeks official on VDay) or 2 weeks since you met??

Your last rolo x

A funny card.

www.bantercards.com

Very funny possibly offensive cards but something different from usual lovey dovey stuff.

Have been in this same situation.

I opted for a jokey inappropriate card from lovelayla. (it said 'you're the best thing to ever happen to my vagina' on it )
He loved it!

We are still together and that's now our card company of choice. This years says 'i love you, but every time i bend over you don't have to come behind me and pretend to do me up the arse!'

Coco- I've had flowers delivered to my work for the last 3 years, off 3 different guys, all new ish relationships that fizzled out soon after, so I've developed a Pavlov's dog reaction to Valentine's day .

I was fine with it in previous LTR's. But not now, with people I'm only dating.

If you're gunna go down the jokey card route, bantercards and thortful are also ace.

Offer to c

Sorry ... Offer to cook him at meal at yours? Then hope he turns up with wine and chocs

Another one voting nothing.

Agree with PPs, there are some great funny cards out there.

Or if you are doing the Netflix and ‘chill’ thing, you could treat yourself to something nice to wear and call it a present for him

I’ve probably gone ott and am planning a funny card from thortful and a small food hamper (both with thoughtful/relevant items) for guy I will have been seeing for a couple of weeks by then.

Oops meant MONTHS not weeks!not that crazy lol!

@RoseOfSharyn thanks for the banter/ rude card site idea as I'll be visiting the website for one 🙂