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I'm broken

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Naomitrus1987 · 19/01/2019 22:56

Posted a couple of weeks ago.
Lost.my high paying job in September after being managed out.
3 weeks later I find out my fiance of 6 years and partner of 10 years and father of my 2 children has been cheating on me with.a friend who I called one of my best who spent a lot of time in my house with me and him

She then miscarried his child
He ended it with her and said we would fix it.
2 weeks later he admits he was still seeing his

That was the end of October

It's now mid Jan and he hasn't decided what he wants
Me and the kids or her.

Why why why am I putting up with it?

Then I ban him from seeing her but he's decided what he's doing. Again he's still seeing her.

I found out today she's telling people she's 11 weeks pregnant again - he claims to know nothing about it.

I know it's over, I do, but I can't let.go. why?

I might have joined tinder - Just to have attention. I met a guy - nothing happened but we spent 2 hours just having such intelligent conversations which I've missed

I'm completely broken. And numb

OP posts:
fabulousathome · 19/01/2019 23:04

Go to see a solicitor ASAP.

user1483972886 · 19/01/2019 23:07

You need to take control of the situation. Sort out your finances and tell him it's over.

Naomitrus1987 · 19/01/2019 23:14

I forgot to add we jointly.own the house both on the mortgage but have gone from a household income of 70k to me possibly eating 20k with a mortgage

OP posts:
hasslecastle · 20/01/2019 00:36

been separated 10 months found out my partner of 29 years was having affair while I was supporting my sister through cancer he denied and denied ! I found out for sure kicked him out and the day after my sister moved in to the hospice she passed away 3 months later, I had that to deal with at the same time as his cheating its been 10 months I just can not stop thinking of him and her I cry myself to sleep every night I miss him so much, he doesn't reply to texts or emails

HollowTalk · 20/01/2019 00:41

Get rid of him and get off Tinder, too. You need to do the Freedom Programme and learn how to put some boundaries down. That bastard has walked all over you and your reaction hasn't been what it should be.

I'm really sorry all that shit has happened. He and she are made for each other, clearly.

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