I don't know if this is something that's usually done on here, but these are two articles I've read and they helped me. Maybe they will help someone else too x
www.elitedaily.com/dating/things-your-partner-should-never-say-to-you/2034538
thoughtcatalog.com/chelsie-scribner/2016/10/dont-ever-let-him-tell-you-to-shut-up/