Background info. Met this guy 5 years ago. We were together. He got posted to America for work and we split. He lived there for 4/5 years and is now back. He got back in contact with me and we had a date on Tuesday and it was like he never left. Anyway I haven't had sex for almost a year and my sensible brain says wait and my sexual brain is saying sleep with him. I guess it's a bit different since we have already slept together. What would others do in my position?