How do you know when it's over?

[Mooieminnie21]

Just wondering how you all knew it was over between you and your partner. Lately I just don't have much interest in us at all and can barely be bothered to talk to him. He hates his job at the moment so that doesn't help but feel likes it gets taken out on me so don't bother saying anything then get accused of being grumpy. I just can't bare to be around him at the moment. Not sure if it'll pass or if I've just had enough and it's coming to an end. We've been together 6 years and had a little boy together who's 15 months. He's impossible to talk to about it as he cannot see how his behaviour is. Just so fed up.

I think when you know you know. The fact you are asking on here, shows that.

My long term relationship of 7 years ended, I think I knew for about 2 years. I tried and tried but I found myself repeating all the time avoid he treated me. I left numerous of times and each time he begged me to go back.

In the end he never changed, he couldn't understand. He refused to talk about his feelings. I left as I found myself so unhappy. It was honestly the best thing I did.

I'm not saying its best for you, you could try outside help. Talk to someone.

For me, it’s when you can’t be bothered to argue any more.

Indifference, really. Apathy.