Not sure what to say

[ClaryFray]

Laying in bed last night asleep, and DP starts interfering with me (sexually).

It woke me up and I stayed quite, because I couldn't believe he was doing it and I wanted to see what he was going to do. As he has a habit of minimilazing his actions, admitting what he can, and leaving the rest. Story changes as new facts arise. He continued on for two minutes and then stopped.

When I questioned him his excuse was that I wasnt breathing properly to be asleep and all I had to do was say no.

I'm concerned there has been more when I'm asleep. He pushed again this morning when I was awake.

I need some advice to make sense of this, I feel uncomfortable with him in my bed now.

He's capable of raping you
Can you leave him? Seriously, please leave as soon as you can

Why did you stay quiet?

Have you spoken to him about this before?

No thank you, I would be packing my bags.

I read another post on a girl (different app) who had this happen to her, and she had the same worries. He was fondling with her pants etc. I have to say I am shocked that these men think this is appropriate. If this isn't the first time you have suspected something then go with the gut instinct. I would be kicking him out definitely. Your body is your personal space and no matter awake or not someone touching it inappropriately without consent is sexual abuse. Plus for you to write this post you know in your heart this is wrong xx

it's my favorite way to be woken up! although the Mr & I would probably never be intimate otherwise as i'm always asleep way earlier than he is