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Fireandflames666 · 23/12/2018 05:31

One of my male friends of many years sent me this and I'm struggling to work out what he means by it. He later backtracked and said he also sent his step brother a similar message, thoughts please?.

"Oy you're an amazing person. Just be yourself in life. You are perfect in every way. Just you are you're amazing. Just well done in just being you. You are everything that I consider perfect. Well done"

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letsdolunch321 · 23/12/2018 11:40

I read it as you are an alright person, he was sending out drunken love.

Don’t over analyse it. Have a good day.

Travisandthemonkey · 23/12/2018 11:43

Well if he’s said he’s not trying to chat you up
Then I would believe him

WelcomeToShootingStars · 23/12/2018 11:43

I've had this a fair bit from friends. I've never taken it as anything other than friendly and nor would I.

You're over thinking.

BusterGonad · 23/12/2018 14:17

So he WAS chatting you up, but accidentally sent it to his brother too!
Are you happy he likes you or not?

PenguinPandas · 23/12/2018 14:31

If he's quite jokey I would interpret second one as he was trying to chat you up but wants to be able to say he was joking if you are not interested.

If he's a serious guy would interpret that as he likes you but doesn't want a relationship with you now for whatever reason.

Fireandflames666 · 23/12/2018 14:59

He's a jokey guy. It could be me overthinking but it could also be something else.

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OldWomanSaysThis · 23/12/2018 15:06

I don't even see that it is personally to you - it's like a message from an online dating man who sends a copy/paste message to everyone. I would just assume there was alcohol involved and not give it a second thought. I definitely wouldn't wonder if he liked me or not.

LyingWitchInTheWardrobe2726 · 23/12/2018 16:32

It sounds to me, OP, as if you'd like it to be a romantic message and you're wanting posters to confirm that for you. Nobody here can really do that as they don't know your relationship with this man and don't know him.

Ask him, if you really want to know the answer. I get that's it's awkward but better that than you pondering/eating your heart out over what is a really ambiguous ramble.

Ask him! :)

Fireandflames666 · 23/12/2018 17:08

Nah, it's not like that at all, lol. It probably is just a silly message with the no meaning behind it. I'm going to sweep it aside, it's Christmas 😁

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fuddle · 23/12/2018 23:57

None of it matters unless you fancy him!

BusterGonad · 24/12/2018 02:08

I'm confused Op you said "He said that "He was trying to chat me up and that "he'd sent the same message to his step brother!"."
So he was chatting you up but you are still not sure if he was, even though he admitted it?
Anyway have a great Christmas 🎄

Renarde1975 · 24/12/2018 02:54

Agree with others. It's an obvious copy pasta.

I dunno, I may be old fashioned but I do rather like messages to me to reference something personal about me.

Ignore OP.

why100000 · 24/12/2018 04:20

I don’t think it implies he fancies you and he has told you it doesn’t.

Also, why would you send the same message to two people? It kind of takes away from anything personal about either person IMO...

May be just me but I thought cheesy patronising nonsense when I read it Confused.

Heartofglass21 · 24/12/2018 12:16

I think it's a round robin thing too. It's a copy and paste from 101 Positive Quotes to Help You Look on the Bright Side.

Aridane · 24/12/2018 12:21

Agree with others. It's an obvious copy pasta.

Sorry- but that’ autocorrect tickled me

CaptainCabinets · 24/12/2018 12:43

“Well done” Grin

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