Am probably being daft.

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Why would a man that’s had a vasectomy take condoms in his washbag for an overnight business trip or have the packaging for a sim card that doesn’t match any of those for devices in the home? How would one investigate further? Should there even be further investigation or am I just a stupidly suspicious old bag?

And sometimes it's not an affair - a work trip away is when they get to use escorts. Sorry, just speaking from experience.

Does the sim packaging contain a card with the phone number on? Sorry you are having to deal with this, the uncertainty is a bugger isn't it.

Sorry to say I agree with PPs, there isn't a "type" who is unfaithful.

The "types" you know who cheat are the idiotic boastful, arrogant ones who casually drop into conversation that they are knocking boots with someone else.

The vast majority of men (and women) who cheat are smart enough to keep it on the down low, because they don't want to get caught and aren't insecure enough to require admiration for it.

I'm also sorry to say that there are a lot of men who see a work overnight as an opportunity to play away.

There may be a burner phone but equally he could have just put the new sim in his regular phone to book a sex worker and then just chucked the sim away.

Condoms in the bag suggest a ONS though - as sex workers we always supply our own condoms and won't accept clients bringing their own.

You must feel sick to your stomach OP.

Sadly there is no "type". Just another silly man who thought he was clever enough to get away with being unfaithful to you.

Prostitutes?

A man would certainly have both of those things if he were seeing prostitutes bitter experience

What type cheat op I don’t think there is a set type. Is there a number on the sim package
Agree with others op it’s not looking good
So sorry you are going through this

Gay ?

Check the car. Glove box. Pull out bit in the boot, does he have a gym locker or locker at work? Box in the garage?

I’d he’s had a vasectomy then it’s to protect for sti’s

A different SIM is self explanatory really, it’s for another phone

Could be for a friend but if he’s away on business it would have to be a close working relationship to get involved with doing it for his ‘mate’

Or it’s an affair.

Trouble is, if it talks like a duck, walks like a duck, quacks like a duck, then it’s probably a duck

Aren't there dual sim phones? One phone, two sim cards.

How are things op